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As soon as you've set up your account, you're ready to start browsing the best and largest collection of gay service members and civilian admirers. Meet guys from anywhere in the world, no matter your type.

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Chat with the guys you meet as much as you want as you flirt and get to know them. You've seen how easy it is, so start today!

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I'm a wild time, and I totally need a big strong soldier who can handle me. Prefer to bottom but can be versatile, as long as just got that spark. - wild_n_waitin, 25
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Army power bottom looking, looking for someone who balances me out in bed and out of it and is willing to be in it for the long haul. No casual, please. - OrdersFromBelow, 27
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I was raised a military brat, so I know how the life is. Would be proud to date someone who's serving our country, and I'm willing to make it work even when it's hard. - AnHonorSir_56, 26

BE OUT, DISCREET, OR BOTH WHEN YOU DATE ONLINE

It's a completely unprecedented time in the world of the gay service member. Now, you can serve openly, and show your pride in both yourself and your country. But not everyone is comfortable being out in the armed forces, for any number of reasons that may be personal, geographical, cultural, or anything else. While things have gotten better, being gay in the military is still complicated. There must be dating options that bridge the gap, right? The answer lies at ActiveDutyDating.com, where we serve your gay military dating needs right as you serve our country. Dating online offers an incredible amount of flexibility, discretion, and convenience. Civilians don't have to worry about making anything harder for their men in uniform, and gay servicemen can stay in touch with their fellow military personnel or their civilian sweethearts no matter where in the world they're stationed. Mobile features make it even simpler and more discreet, so your level of openness is completely up to you. You can share photos of your guy to show how proud you are of him, or keep it all under wraps and smile at your lovely secret. However you choose to navigate the world of uniformed dating while gay, ActiveDutyDating.com provides you with the features, flexibility, and support you need to make your relationship a success, all on your terms.

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I met my amazing husband on ActiveDutyDating while he was overseas. The anticipation of seeing him in person was killing me, but it was so worth it. Finding him on the site wasn't just easy, it was fun and it was such a great stat to our relationship. I can't recommend it enough for gay military dating when it got me a guy like him!

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Always thought guys in uniform were hot, but after I met my boyfriend on ActiveDutyDating, I knew that they could be hilarious and kind, too. I'm gonna be honest, I went on the site just because I thought I could meet hot, buff guys there, but I got so much more than that. Uniform dating here worked great for me, and then some!

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My dad was military and I've always admired those who served. After my last relationship (civilian) ended, I gave ActiveDutyDating a try hoping I could cut it with a military guy. Half a year and going strong so far! While I wait for him to come home, I'm recommending this uniformed dating site to everyone, because those who serve deserve love.

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I came to ActiveDutyDating totally by accident but that turned out to be awesome luck. I thought why not sign up while I'm here, the guys look great. I didn't set out to take it so far but before I knew it I was looking at military single and found a guy I had to message. We've only just started dating, but I'm hopeful and happy!

Find That Hot Guy No Matter Where You Are

In the outside world, gay guys have at least a few answers for where and how to meet other men. Across the military-civilian divide, or even more so inside the military, things generally aren't that simple. You may be serving somewhere that doesn't have places for gay guys to meet, or if you're a civilian you may not know where the uniformed guys tend to hang out in your area. It's even more challenging to try to meet someone who's not local to you at the moment: someone from where you expect to be based or deployed next, or a service member somewhere you'd like to move. ActiveDutyDating.com cuts down on this challenge by helping you find, meet, and get together with other guys no matter where in the world either of you happens to be. We have a huge user base of both servicemen and interested civilians, giving you the best chance to meet gay military singles or civilians. Our members live and serve all over the world, and you can look up results from anywhere. Finally, our profiles are easy to read and simple to access, letting you search, filter, browse, click, and get to chatting with the guy you want as quickly and easily as possible. Discover why ActiveDutyDating.com is the best uniformed dating site for gay men and sign up now!

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Make Sure He’s The Military Match For You

The armed forces are an extremely special and select group of people, and it's something to be proud of. Gay guys outside the military face enough of a challenge finding other men, but it can be even more difficult to find each other when you're choosing from a much smaller group of people, whether you're looking for service members or civilian guys who want to date a man in uniform. ActiveDutyDating.com considers it an honor to offer easier, simpler ways to connect men interested in armed forces dating. But finding gay military singles, or the civvies who love them, is only the first step. Next, you have to make sure that he's really the guy for you, that your chemistry is top notch and that he's the sort of guy that you're really into. This is when the great search and browse features at ActiveDutyDating.com come into play. You can look for exactly your type of guy, and then you can message and chat to get to know him and make sure you're compatible. You face enough challenges, so we make it easy for you to get to who you want and determine how great you are together without wasting any time. Gay military dating doesn't need to get any more complicated than it already is, so let our site make it easier for you today!

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I'll take care of you, because you're out there taking care of all of us. There's real pride in that, and I'll show how proud I am of you in every way.

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Based in the states right now and would love to meet a guy while I have the chance, especially if we can catch movies or maybe concerts while I'm here.

image descriptionNew2This_444, 23

Haven't dated before, believe it or not, but gonna be deployed soon and really wanna give it a shot before then. Since I'm not sure what to expect anyway, surprise me?