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Find Your Military-Minded Match!

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Create Your Profile

All you need to activate your account is a valid email address and a username. No lengthy surveys, no complex signup process, just easy, fun dating.

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Browse Our Members

With your profile ready to go, you can start using the many site features to look through the huge database of members around the world. Whether you're military or a civilian, this site makes it simple!

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Meet Your Match

As soon as you find someone you're interested in you can chat, flirt, and get to know them. It's that easy, so why not start today?


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I'd love to get together with a female soldier. I know I can handle long distance, and if we're right for each other I'll wait for you as long as it takes. - FaraHoldinDownTheFort, 26
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Mostly looking for a girl back home, someone really sweet. Soldiers may be tough, but we can be big teddy bears, too. That's what everyone back home called me, that's still who I am. - SteadyTeddy, 24
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I'm a fun guy who loves talking movies and comics, and I'm flexible on you location. If you can do distance (and like movies), we can work together just fine. - BuffMovieBuff_165, 28


Not everyone has what it takes to takes to be a member of the armed forces, and not everyone has what it takes to be in a relationship with members of the military, either. is dedicated to bringing these two very special sets of people together in successful, fulfilling, and long-lasting relationships. Military dating faces many challenges, and getting the relationship started is one among many. That's one challenge that we want to take off the shoulders of our hardworking servicemen and women, as well as something we want to spare the civilians who need to dedicate their energy to supporting their military partners. Whether you are in the Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force, or Coast Guard, or are a member of the civilian population interested in dating someone in the armed forces, is the uniform dating site that is here to make this difficult but ultimately rewarding venture a success. We let you search everywhere in the world to find military members serving near you, or in the area you wish or plan to be. And for those who are deployed, it's a great way to keep looking for love and keep in touch. Whatever your needs when it comes to dating in the military, we are the site who are here you meet your needs as you meet your match.



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I met my Navy boyfriend on ActiveDutyDating. The site made it so easy, there was no fuss. I knew I wanted to date someone military, and I looked him up so quickly. I couldn't believe how quickly we started chatting and really hitting it off. I miss him when he's away, but the site made everything else about military dating simple as can be.

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After running into a soldier on leave and having a really fun night I thought I should try this uniform dating thing. I used ActiveDutyDating and was surprised at how easy it was to find military guys near me. There were a bunch I liked and I chatted with a few, but one really stood out, and sure enough, we're still together.

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I'm ex-mil but it never stopped me being femme in my downtime. I have a girlfriend in the service now after looking up military singles on ActiveDutyDating. I wanted someone who could definitely handle the life and the people in it, and the site didn't disappoint. As soon as she gets back home, we're getting married, and I'm so happy!

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I've got an amazing girl back home, and it's all thanks to ActiveDutyDating. Never thought I'd try online dating but it's not like there's a ton of options out there, right? We met on the site after I was deployed and in person a since then, and man, I'm so happy. I can't think of a better place for military dating.

Find a Military Match Anywhere In The World

When it comes to trying to date in the military, one of the biggest roadblocks is finding military singles near you in the first place. The military is an exclusive population scattered around the world, and meeting civilians or others in uniform can be luck of the draw depending on where you're assigned, when and where you get leave, and any number of other factors. Meanwhile, civilians who want to date servicemen or women are also only a subset of the general population: simply put, not everyone can handle it. That's why online dating is downright revolutionary when it comes to members of the armed forces. At a top military dating website like, you can search for profiles anywhere in the world: where you live, where you're willing to move for your uniformed love, where you'll be deployed, where you expect to be based. That flexibility is key to letting our members start successful matches. We have a huge collection of member profiles and our comprehensive searching, browsing, and filtering capabilities let you look wherever you need to for the match you feel is right for you. Finding someone you can really see yourself with is only the first step in a successful military relationship, but we want to make sure it's one of the easiest, so get started now when you create a profile.

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Start Your Military Relationship Off Right With Chat And Messaging

In the past, one of the hardest things about dating in or among the armed forces has been keeping in touch and keeping love alive with communication. But there are many ways that online dating has completely changed the field, and military singles as well as interested civilians now have more and better options to make dating a success. Not only can servicemen and women meet each other and civilians from across the globe, but with sites like, they can get to know each other or stay in touch from anywhere in the world. Making time to get to know each other can now happen from anywhere with an internet connection, easily and instantaneously. Talk to your fellow military members even when you're in different parts of the world, stay in touch with your civilian partner while they await you back in the states, or accommodate any possible combination of geographic situations. Take the chatting at your own speed and go as far as you're comfortable as you build a solid foundation for your relationship. Tell each other about the fascinating places you’re at, and keep the best parts of uniform dating as you leave behind one of the most difficult and frustration aspects. Stack the odds in your favor when you sign up for an account at today!


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Air Force, open to pretty much any options. I don't want to limit myself. I'm really into music and like to take things slow, so just chat me and we'll see.

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Fun, flirty, funny sailor looking for someone else in the service, but will consider civvies! Just looking for the right person, whoever it might be. No way to know but trying!

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Currently deployed, but willing to give the distance a chance if you are. I love a guy who's funny and kind above everything else, so send me your best jokes, huh?


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